Every child has a unique image of itself, partly shaped by the influence of the parents. Her child is born with a self-image or self-assurance. Both properties are learned by experience from birth.
But who is the self-assured child? Simply put, it is the child who is convinced of their self-esteem and their talents and abilities. Confident and outgoing child, which show no fear, the world of the unique ways in which he or she shines.
The process of making self-confident child begins at birth. Children are born with a clean slate and not implicitly know and understand their own value. The seeds of confidence and self-esteem, must be carefully sown by the adult figures in the life of a child.
Let us take a look at 3 ½ years old Jennifer:
Jennifer attends pre-school. As part of which at year-end wrap up, MOM and dad meet with Jen's preschool teacher, Mrs. Hamilton.
Mrs. Hamilton tells Jen's parents that she pointed out that Jennifer feedback always searches on their services. "Conclusion of Jennifer a drawing" Mrs. Hamilton, notes "it is certainly never sure whether it is good, and, therefore fails, fail all luck issue." "Instead she asks their teacher for re assurance that the drawing is beautiful and it has made happy."
Jennifer's parents have seen similar behavior at home and game data with other children. "Jennifer has enormous difficulties choosing colors of crayons on food," explains Jennifer's mother. "If I your questions what they want to asks her to dinner, always 'are my decisions what?' and I'm starting to choose for them narrow." Sometimes, I'm still the decision for them. "No matter, I choose what - even if it never happy to know is Jennifer's and always claims, why has their favorite food, the food." Mrs. Hamilton says Jennifer's parents that she has to found that Jennifer again responsible talk to a teacher or adult, demanding an explanation, direction to follow. "No matter how many times we try to talk to her" notes Jennifer's father, "she seems to have an awareness of their behavior."
The following suggestions can help you to raise children with confidence:
o praise your child: applause of the efforts, not only the result. Start early and give to genuine compliments freely and honestly.
o child's schoolwork and other activities see yours: your child offer constructive feedback on their work, so your child can have a safe and realistic look at itself
o frame social interactions: give your child the limits with the speak and respond to others
o may refer to: choices: allow your child to choose a limited number of choices. Providing too many shall prevail against the child, and can lead to frustration and confusion
o lead: always keep a watchful eye and take over if necessary
Remember: the process of building self-esteem must begin at birth, but it is never too late to implement positive behavior.
The recipe for success in a confident child is easy; Connect with your child through positive interaction and communication, and provide unconditional love and support.
You must affect the nature and manner in which your child interacts forever and feel about yourself. You can reach by a professional for help if you have any questions.
Dr. Charles Sophy currently serves services (DCFS), which is responsible for the health, safety and well-being of almost 40,000 foster children as medical director for the Los Angeles County Department of children and family. He has also a private Psychiatry practice in Beverly Hills, California. Dr. Sophy has extensively taught and is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of California Los Angeles Neuropsychiatric Institute. His lectures and teachings are consistent as to the best of present classified.
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